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Saturday, July 6, 2013

Change

If you've been following along, you may have noticed that several posts have disappeared. 
Well, don't worry! They aren't gone! They have just relocated. More info to come soon :) 

Over the last few weeks (well, 5 1/2 to be exact), I have been thinking about what it really means to be a mommy. 

When is someone fully "made" a mommy? 

I think of myself always as a work in progress. My little boy is growing and changing every day. What he likes today isn't always what he likes and what will work tomorrow. Since Christian is always changing, I have to always be changing as his mommy too. So I think that I will always be a "mommy in the making". 

"Mommyhood", however, is fully here! From carrying that sweet little boy in my belly for 41 weeks to caring for him here in our home, I have been "mommy" for almost a year now! 

The focus of this blog has been on pregnancy and preparing for life with our sweet little bundle of joy! 
That life has now arrived and so change is coming here at 'Mommy in the Making'! 

I will continue to post here at 'Mommy in the Making' on topics regarding pregnancy and preparing for life with baby, but for updates on Christian, "mommy life", and various baby related topics, I will be posting at another blog! My sweet hubby is working on the final touches as we speak! 

STAY TUNED!  


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Saturday, June 22, 2013

My Hospital Bag - Re-visited!

When packing my hospital bag before Christian was born, I had a feeling that I was overpacking, but at the same time, felt more comfortable being overpacked instead of under packed.

Now that I've lived through the hospital and birth experience, here is what I would change to my original list!

I've crossed out the items I didn't need or use and included explanations. 

For Me
1. Labor outfit - Black skirt, black tank top and black sports bra (I'm going to wear this instead of the hospital gown...unless I change my mind)
I ended up wearing the hospital gown! Once I was there and was being induced, I just decided the hospital gown was easiest and actually pretty comfortable. The nurses actually recommended I just free boob it and not even wear my sports bra so it would be extra easy to try breastfeeding right after baby boy was born. And yes, it was nice to be able to get dirty and leave the dirty gown there at the hospital. 
I did end up wearing the skirt to bed the night Christian was born, though! The nurses still were checking my bottom and this was a comfy option with a nursing tank so I would probably still pack the skirt. 

2. Robe
I did wear this once while walking the halls at the hospital during labor. 

3. Slippers
Same with these. Wore them while walking the halls during labor. 

4. Bobby pins to pin my hair out of my face
Actually never used these! But my hair was pretty short. 

5. 2 Nursing tanks
I wore both of these! To bed and to go home. 

6. 2 Pairs of yoga pants
I only wore one pair and that was to go home. I would have wore both pairs but I ended up wearing the dress I wore to the hospital on the day we had visitors. 

7. 2 zip up hoodies
I wore one of these as well. We could control the temp of the room but I still was a little chilly one night. 

8. A black strapless cloth sundress (I'm going to wear this instead of a gown while we are at the hospital and after baby is born) 
I ended up wearing the dress I wore to the hospital instead. But if I hadn't this would have been a great option for visitors! 

9. Meds 
Apparently you aren't supposed to pack your own meds! The hospital has to give them to you! 

10. 2 Bath Towels (1 for me and 1 for hubby)
We definitely used these, but didn't need to because the hospital had towels, but it was still nice having our own. 

11. Facewash
Used it!

12. Breast Cream
The hospital gave me this too! And it was way better than what I had brought (and heard was good). 
My new recommendation: Motherlove Nipple Cream 

13. Granny panties
I can't remember if I ended up wearing these or not? I think I wore one pair on the day we went home? Otherwise I wore the hospital's awesome panties! Still have a pair! They really work well with your massive pad! 

14. 2 pairs of socks
I think I only used one pair. 

15. Chapstick
Used it!

16. Glasses 
Used them every day! 

17. Hard candy 
No need for this

18. Water Bottle
The hospital kept us stocked with a pitcher of water and glasses but it was really nice having my own water bottle, especially one with a straw, that I could easily sip from while nursing. 

19. Make up Bag
Used it of course!

20. Pillow
The hospital pillows weren't really all that terrible, but it was nice having our own

21. Toothbrush/toothpaste
Used it!

22. Shampoo
Used it! Once we moved to post partum they actually brought us some pretty decent shampoo, but for my shower in labor and delivery the morning after induction had started, I was glad to have my own.

23. Earrings (I heard this is nice to feel more pulled together for pictures)
I ended up forgetting to put them on/didn't bring a pair that matched the necklace/outfit I wore in our hospital pictures but if I had planned better this would have been really nice!

24. Hairdryer? Might not get used but I can be hopeful, right? :)
I definitely did not have time to use this! 

For Hubby: 
Pretty sure he used everything we packed! 
1. Water Bottle 

2. Drink mixes for his water

3. Snacks (Granola bars, jar of peanut butter) 

4. Razors 

5. Shaving Cream 

6. Glasses/contacts 

7. Pillow 

8. Boxers

9. Socks

10. 2 t-shirts

11. Hoodie

12. iPad 

For Baby Christian: 
I put all of his stuff in a gallon size ziplock bag. 

1. Car Seat

2. Hat 

3. Blanket

4. Going Home Outfit size newborn AND size 0-3 months
I would add that no matter what the season, babies can't regulate their temperature and hospitals are cold! On the day we went home it was in the 70s and the nurse encouraged us to keep him in his pants and hat cover him with a blanket. He was also wearing a onesie. So plan on the warmer side for clothes I think. 

5. Burp Cloth
The hospital had cloth diapers that I used instead. 

6. Socks 
A few pairs! 

7. Nail clippers 

8. Boppy

I would actually add to this list: 
9. Long sleeve onesies to wear at the hospital while wrapped in a blanket (or other cute/warm outfits). While we didn't really NEED this, we wanted him to look cute when we had visitors and to be warm. The nurses also were like "go ahead and get him dressed in whatever you packed" and I was like "Shoot. We didn't pack anything!" 

Other Items: 
1. Card Games
If we wouldn't have had so many visitors, these would have been REALLY nice! We would have gotten pretty bored otherwise, I'm sure! 

2. Magazines
Same with these! However, since I went in the night before to start the induction process, we may have used these a bit waiting for things to get started. 

3. My purse with insurance card and driver's license
We never had to use these, but they are something that just are always with me anyway. 

4. Baby Book
Got his little foot prints! :) 

5. Hand Sanitizer
We may have forgotten to have visitors use this :( And some visitors just used it on their way through the door since the hospital had some attached to the wall! :)

6. Camera and extra batteries 
We honestly didn't take a single picture with our actual camera....we just used our phones!

7. Chargers (Cell/ipad)
Got lots and lots of use!

8. Childbirth Book 
Didn't use this either...

I would still add these things last minute:

1. Pillows x2

2. Make up bag

3. iPad and charger

4. Cell chargers

5. Magazines

6. Hair brush 

7. Hair dryer 

There you have it! Now...to remember this for next time! :)


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Thursday, June 6, 2013

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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Welcome Christian James!

Christian James 
Born May 29, 2013
7:36pm 
8 pounds, 20 inches 
Strawberry Blonde Hair 
Blue Eyes 

















We are loving our little man and he couldn't be more perfect! 
Birth Story coming soon! 


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Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Streaming Live from Fairview Ridges...

Bringing you the LIVE play by play of labor and delivery!! Click below to watch what is happening and see Baby Christian be born! 


I'm here at the hospital and all checked in. I've gotten my first dose of gels put on my cervix and am having some mild cramping...basically like I've been having for the last month! 

Around 1am I should get another dose and then again at 5am. If contractions aren't coming strong by then, then I'll get started with pitocin by about 9am! 

It could be awhile before Christian is actually here, but we will be meeting him soon!!! 

AHHH!!!!! 

I was totally freaking out on our way to the hospital and definitely cried when hubby called to verify it would be good for us to head in. Whew. 

After we checked in and the nurse got my vitals and everything, my blood pressure was pretty high because I was so nervous!! Now that we are all settled, I'm feeling much more relaxed and ready to get this show on the road!! 

Oh...and if you haven't realized it yet....

GOTCHA!!!! 

No way are we streaming LIVE! ha ha ha But don't worry, we will keep facebook updated with pictures! 

If you haven't already, be sure to like my page on facebook (Mommy in the Making MN) or follow me on twitter (@Mom2BeMN) to keep up to date! 




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Thursday, May 23, 2013

A Day in the Life .... Pre Baby

As pregnancy has slowly been coming to an end, I have been told more than once that I will never remember what my life is like now once I have kids here. 

Sooo....I'm taking some time to write it down and reflect on what my days look like. 

In general, here is a weekly outline:

Monday - Blog day, work on writing blog posts for the week
Tuesday - Couponing, plan meals for the week, and make grocery list
Wednesday - Grocery shopping (and usually Dr. appt day), 7:30pm HS Youth Group at Church
Thursday - Laundry and cleaning day, 6:30pm Small Group
Friday - Usually a social day, meet up with friends and relax

DAILY Timeline: 

8:00am- Wake up (on my own), lay in bed, check facebook and email, read devotions
8:30am- Get out of bed, have breakfast, read blogs, do dishes, tidy up house
9:30am- Shower and get ready for the day
10:30am- Work on daily tasks
12pm- Lunch
1pm- Take Baxter for a walk
2pm- Work on daily tasks, read and enjoy the afternoon
4/5pm- Start making dinner
6pm- Eat dinner
7pm- Time with hubby - go for a walk, watch tv, play games and relax
10/11pm- Bed time!

My days are really quite laid back! 

I also came across this fun list on the Bump - 10 Things I Wish I Did Before Babies.

1. Sleep in late - Do it almost daily now in preparation for Baby Christian!

2. Live by myself - Did it August 2011 - August 2012. One full year of independence! 

3. Travel More - I think ever since meeting my husband my traveling has increased...trips to NY to visit his family, NYC just because, and Chicago, oh and can't forget our time in Florida and the Bahamas for our honeymoon! 

4. Spend an entire Sunday lounging - We actually do this quite regularly...after church that is. 

5. Relax at the beach - We did it all last summer and I did it the whole summer before that...and we just finished doing it on our honeymoon last summer too! 

6. Take off on a weekend adventure - Hubby and I did this once while dating...and I think I did it a lot during my single years

7. Go on more dates with my husband - We go on lots of dates, but I think we will always wish we went on more! 

8. Pursue a master's degree - I did this for a full year. Actually, my class is now about to graduate! Kinda sad, but I don't want to be a marriage and family therapist anyway. Congrats to them, though! 

9. Have sex - whenever and wherever we want! - I would say we did this on our honeymoon...and that was the end of that! ha ha 

10. Drive cross country - Can't say we have done this...but I forsee it in our child filled future. I loved road trips as a kid! 

How has your life changed since kids? What do you wish you would have done before babies?


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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Induction Scheduled!


If you are following along, you have probably already read in my 40 Week Bumpdate that we have scheduled our induction. Here are the details: 

On Tuesday, May 28th at 6:30pm we are to call Labor and Delivery and get the go ahead to come in that night at 7:30pm. They will then begin putting gel (prostaglandins) on my cervix to get it to start to ripen. The gel will be applied every 4 hours, so we will stay the night at the hospital. 

The gel alone may start contractions. If it doesn't, the next morning (Tuesday, May 29th) around 7:30/8am, they will start pitocin to get contractions going. 

HOPEFULLY we will then have a baby by Tuesday night or Wednesday morning, if not sooner!! 

The doctor also stripped my membranes at my appointment today, so we will see if that gets anything going.

You can read more about the process of induction on BabyCenter.

If I do get induced, I'll just be chilling at the hospital waiting for things to get started, so watch my facebook blog page and twitter for updates! If baby comes before our induction date, I'll try to keep you all updated via facebook and twitter too! Don't worry...I'll let you all know when he is here...no need to text...I'll text YOU! :) 

For family and friends that are wanting to come visit, we will let you know when we are ready for visitors :) 
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