Just last week I came across this image shared on Facebook:
As I read it, and of course shared it, it hit me how much I really take advantage of my husband.
When we first started dating, I soaked in all of his sweetness and care for me and constantly showed him appreciation for how he valued and treated me. Now, just 8 months into marriage, I can see the ways that I no longer show appreciation but instead have come to expect this behavior from him. It is such a blessing and should not go unnoticed.
I am currently 34 weeks pregnant and more cranky, irrational, and hormonal than ever. Does my hubby get annoyed and cranky back at me? NO! He caters to my every need and shows me continual unconditional love.
How did I get so lucky??
Well, I like to think that he was a long awaited answer to prayer.
In the summer of 2008, I began to pray for my future husband. I knew that I wanted to be married someday and wanted to be able to give all of my heart to my future husband, so I started a journal where I would write letters to my future husband. I would write about what was going on in my life and wonder about what was going on in his. I would also pray for him and that God would not only be preparing him for me, but preparing me for him.
I gave this journal to my husband when we were first engaged. Believe me, it was somewhat embarrassing to hand over something so personal and vulnerable. But my husband loved it. And coming together with someone in marriage is a personal and vulnerable act. Two truly do become one while still maintaining all of your individuality.
God sent my hubby just for me. And me for him, even if during pregnancy I seem to often feel like hubby would be much better off without me and all of my craziness.
So today, and every day, I am thankful for the blessing of my amazing husband and this post is a thank you to him.
I am thankful to my hubby for....
Continually loving on me even when I'm unlovable
Doing his best to make me comfortable even when the only thing that will truly make me comfortable is getting his child out of me!
Helping out so much around the house when I'm not feeling well...from dishes to laundry, cooking and cleaning he is always willing to pitch in and never complains
Telling me he thinks I am more beautiful than ever even while I feel like I just look more fat than ever
Listening to me when I'm emotional and irrational...laughing and crying at the same time.....for no reason at all. Yep. Gotta love hormones!
Helping me tie my tennis shoes...because I can no longer do it myself. I have returned to being a helpless child...
Being there for me to lean on with all the ups and downs that this pregnancy has given me
Being so supportive of me in all the adventures that our life together has given us
Making me laugh when I'm feeling down
Working so hard to provide for our growing family. He is such a hard worker and I know he will always do whatever is needed to provide for us
Helping me grow to be a better person and the best me I can be
Always pushing us to grow in our faith and leading our family to pursue God and give glory to Him
Praying for me in my darkest of moments
Being a big kid at heart which will make him the best daddy I could have asked for for our kids!
I could honestly go on all day...but I'll spare you :)
Thank you Jesus for blessing me with this amazing man and answering my prayers more perfectly than I could have ever expected!
I LOVE YOU HUBBY!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
"Two are better off than one, for they can help the other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken."
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1 comments:
You guys are so sweet together :)
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